I noticed that I am a little more selfish as I get older…I think my happiness has to come FIRST before I can offer anybody anything.
I understand that some things is just outta my hands…not matter what I do or say, things happen the way it Needs to, no matter what I want.
I cannot help whom I love even though it may hurt people.
Just because you don’t agree DOESN’T mean it’s wrong
If I just be quiet, I can hear really well.
It’s A LOT easier to just be honest and accept the consequences
People really don’t understand that everything isn’t meant to be understood
It takes too much energy to try to hold a grudge against somebody.
I am a much nicer person than I use to be and it’s genuine…I don’t have to try NOT to be a bytch anymore, I’m just not one…
I don’t let too many things bother me anymore (hence why I’m no longer a bytch)…I have to accept things for what they are and not get angry
There’s no ONE right way to do things and a person is NOT wrong because they chose a different way than I would
It’s not up to me to point out flaws of shortcomings…It’’s not even up to me to decide what is a flaw…Who am I? (not to say that I won’t call out UGLY when I see ugly lol)
I make better decisions when I don’t let other people’s ideas taint my views
I follow my spirit, no matter what…I alway falter when I fight it and always come out okay when I listen, even if what it tells me seems wrong at the time…Spirit never steers you wrong.
I’ve noticed that I am really an intelligent beautiful woman and I seem to be getting better everyday…
Life really isn’t that bad…even in the face of losing everything, SO what…As long as I have breath, I still have another chance….
No matter what SOMEBODY is NOT going to like you, so you might as well do what’s in your heart
Having children is one of the greatest things a person can experience and worth every bit of sacrafice.
I canNOT stand people who don’t take responsiblity for their actions or that makes excuses…I have a REASON for everything I do and I have no problem telling why I did it with NO excuses
I’ve learned to just go with it and enjoy the ride. wherever it may take me.
May 17th, 2008
At some point, couples in every romantic relationship have “the talk” where they spill the beans on their pasts. It’s a chance to come clean and get all the skeletons out of the closet. But how much information is truly necessary? How much truth is too much? For instance does a woman have to be completely honest about every romantic relationship she’s been in???
May 9th, 2008
Can a person really “cheat on another”? I had this conversation w/a friend…
We are all our own people…we don’t belong to anyone and we can do whatever we want to…as long as we are willing to accept the consequences…Right…WHATEVER!!!
Does cheating HAVE to be sexual…
Are you already cheating by contemplating…
Have you cheated by carrying on a conversation w/someone you know is interested in you or that you are interested in…
If someone does “cheat” on you…Does that mean that didn’t want to be with you anyways and you should just let it go
After a person finds out you are cheating and they decide to stay are you still “cheating” on them.
What do you think?
May 4th, 2008
Major Culprit of Black Hair Issues
Shampoo can leave your hair dry and brittle, which will lead to broken and damaged hair. Some Black women don’t wash their hair often because they are afraid of the drying effect washing has…Well guess what, it’s not washing your hair that is leaving it dry, it’s the shampoo you are using. 90% of shampoos contain SLES Sodium Laureth Sulphate and.or Sodium Lauryl Sulphates. These ingredients are the same ingredients you will find in dish washing liquid, laundry detergent and other household detergents…See why your hair is so dry? My shampoo doesn’t contain either and will leave your hair soft and moisturized. It contains natural oils such as avocado oil, jojoba oil, olive oil and more…The shampoo is so moisturizing, you can use it EVERY day…
Black women should wash their hair once a week, especially if you are using products on the hair that may lead to build up on the scalp. Not only does a clean scalp lead to healthy hair, but the massaging action of washing your hair will stimulate your scalp and assist in growing your hair, not to mention head massages are very relaxing. To check out my products, go to www.fabulousblackwoman.com and see what my customers are saying about Sweet Nature Natural Hair Care by Eddie.
May 3rd, 2008
If you are a member of Black Planet, I have a group on there called…you guessed it…Fabulous Black Woman http://groups.blackplanet.com/fabulousblackwoman
We discuss many topics, especially those related to relationships and REAL womanhood…If you are a member, please join, it’s a FABULOUS GROUP of 700 members. One of the topics we discussed was what could We do to be better? Here is what I posted. What do you think could help us progress?
I think we have to learn to be single in order to get to know ourselves and our strengths.
I think we have to learn to be QUITE and listen
We have to learn to be submissive
Know that we can’t always be in control
Be careful of the way we carry ourselves at ALL times…somebody is always watching.
Realize it’s impossible to be a father and that our son’s need postive role models.
Compliment a sistah if she’s doing the damn thang… try to pull her up if she’s not
STOP gossiping so much
Stay off of Maury and Springer lol.
May 2nd, 2008
