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Life Lessons I’ve Learned

May 17th, 2008

I noticed that I am a little more selfish as I get older…I think my happiness has to come FIRST before I can offer anybody anything.

I understand that some things is just outta my hands…not matter what I do or say, things happen the way it Needs to, no matter what I want.

I cannot help whom I love even though it may hurt people.

Just because you don’t agree DOESN’T mean it’s wrong

If I just be quiet, I can hear really well.

It’s A LOT easier to just be honest and accept the consequences

People really don’t understand that everything isn’t meant to be understood

It takes too much energy to try to hold a grudge against somebody.

I am a much nicer person than I use to be and it’s genuine…I don’t have to try NOT to be a bytch anymore, I’m just not one…

I don’t let too many things bother me anymore (hence why I’m no longer a bytch)…I have to accept things for what they are and not get angry

There’s no ONE right way to do things and a person is NOT wrong because they chose a different way than I would

It’s not up to me to point out flaws of shortcomings…It’’s not even up to me to decide what is a flaw…Who am I? (not to say that I won’t call out UGLY when I see ugly lol)

I make better decisions when I don’t let other people’s ideas taint my views

I follow my spirit, no matter what…I alway falter when I fight it and always come out okay when I listen, even if what it tells me seems wrong at the time…Spirit never steers you wrong.

I’ve noticed that I am really an intelligent beautiful woman and I seem to be getting better everyday…

Life really isn’t that bad…even in the face of losing everything, SO what…As long as I have breath, I still have another chance….

No matter what SOMEBODY is NOT going to like you, so you might as well do what’s in your heart

Having children is one of the greatest things a person can experience and worth every bit of sacrafice.

I canNOT stand people who don’t take responsiblity for their actions or that makes excuses…I have a REASON for everything I do and I have no problem telling why I did it with NO excuses

I’ve learned to just go with it and enjoy the ride. wherever it may take me.

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