I have the right to ask for what I want
I have the right to say “no” to request or demands I cannot meet
or do not want to meet.
I have right to express all of my feelings, positive or negative.
I have the right to change my mind.
I have the right to make mistakes and not to have to be perfect.
I have the right to say “no” to anything when I feel I am not ready,
it is unsafe, or it violates my values.
I have the right to determine my own priorities.
I have the right not to be responsible for others’ behavior, actions,
feeling, or problems.
I have the right to expect honesty from others.
I have the right to be angry at someone I love.
I have the right to be uniquely myself.
I have the right to feel scared and say “I’m afraid.”
I have the right to say, “I don’t know”.
I have the right not to give excuses or reasons for my behavior.
I have a right to make decisions based on my feelings.
I have the right to my own needs for personal space and time.
I have the right to be playful and frivolous.
I have the right to be h healthier than those around me.
I have the right to be in a non abusive environment.
I have the right to make friends and be comfortable around people.
I have the right to change and grow.
I have the right to have my needs and wants respected by others.
I have the right to be treated with dignity and respect.
I have the right to be happy
July 9th, 2008
Yesterday was the first official celebration of this new holiday; and for the most part, it went really well; but some people weren’t completely clear on how this holiday is SUPPOSE to be celebrated; so here we go…Oh, by the way, it has been determined that this holiday will actually be celebrated WEEKLY, so I guess instead of a holiday, it will just be a day of the week. It has been determined that it will be SQUEEZED in between Friday and Saturday, which makes the week a little longer and A LOT more fun…for ME
First of all; the holiday is called: Be really NICE to Eddie; Do WHATEVER she wants; and GIVE her EVERTHING she asks for DAY!!! Isn’t that GREAT!!!….
Okay now let’s get to the rules, ’cause some people just totally messed the day up yesterday, so in order to avoid this in the future; I better be really specific on what it entails. I do however recognize that some people and religions do not celebrate holidays; but don’t worry, because as I said before; this day has been declared a new day of the week, so you all can still participate! Isn’t that wonderful?….
Rule 1….
Eddie is a really nice girl, so be really nice to her; even if you are a complete jerk to EVERYBODY else, you MUST be really nice to her. I know that other people may have pissed you off, but this does not justify you not being really nice to Eddie. Besides, the consequences will be a lot worse then just going along and being nice…..
Rule 2….
Eddie doesn’t really ask much because she is independent and proud; she also finds liberation in new accomplishments; BUT, if she asks you to do something; regardless of what it is, YOU MUST DO IT…no questions asked and no back talk, unless you want your lips smacked with a good stiff backhand lol. (Just keep in mind, most of the tasks she ask will be reasonable; Although…there will be some unreasonable ones, but it’s up to you to find a way to make them happen for her by any means necessary)….
Rule 3….
Again, Eddie isn’t a very needy girl at all. Her life is so abundant and enriched with beautiful people and she really doesn’t need or want for much, BUT, if she asks you to provide her with something…ANYTHING, you need to give it to her; doesn’t matter what it is, you MUST hand it over! I know it may be your last; or you may even be saving it for someone else; but as Rule 3 states…it doesn’t matter WHAT it is; you must hand it over. She is compassionate and sometimes she may NOT even take your prized possessions, but sometimes she will, so just be prepared to depart with EVERYTHING you own once a week!….
That’s it…ONLY 3 simple rules! All you need to do is commit them to memory and obey! Thanks so much in making the first Be really NICE to Eddie; Do WHATEVER she wants; and GIVE her EVERTHING she asks for DAY so great for me…
Every one of us DESERVE a day like this, but chances are; unless you are paying these people; this day is only a fantasy for you. Well, if what you get… you want, bless or appreciate it, then you will get EVERYTHING you WANT…AND, if you are nice to others and don’t let their “bad days” disrupt your spirit; then that’s kind of like them being nice to you (uh, this one is a stretch, I know) Anyhow…ENJOY!
July 9th, 2008
e-mail from my customer
Well, I thought it was funny that the very day that I made up my mind to give up on something (school), is the vey day your products were delivered to my front door. I opened the box and the 1st item I picked up was the moisturizing growth spray. After reading it (and you know what it says)…I got to work and turned in an assignment that was late (due the day prior). I missed the due date because I was done…I was through with school!! So, thanks to your inspiring message…I’m back in the game!! I’m only going to lose 1 (that’s o-n-e) point for lateness!! As, a matter of fact, that’s why I’m up late now…playing catch up. I was also a teen mother (had my daughter at 16) and I believe I read the same about you (if I’m not mistaking), so your words/message really meant something. Many THANKS to you. Now, all you have to do is take your business to the top and make it to Oprah so I can come on the show and tell everyone how you encoraged me to get back on track when I was about to throw in the towel…LOL! Much success to you.
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Today has been so wonderful! I am doing a workshop with approximately 100 girls today (the company that I’m doing the workshop for purchased 1 set of my products for EVERY girl)…I got this e-mail that literally made me cry (and I ain’t no crying type person), I had a total stranger write me a business plan so that I can grow and get the best out of my business…Another person loves my products so much, she is pushing it in the salons in Miami and I have another radio interview to do tonight… It’s only 3:30., I gotta alotta day left…Imma make the best out of it and EVERY DAY! Thanks God…I am so grateful in the way you work everything out for me. Thanks for my spirit and allowing me to overlook the naysayers and doubters and stay positive regardless of what I’m going through. Thanks for keeping me focused and motivated when there are so many distractions in the world. Thanks for letting me understand your plan for me and allowing me the tools to fulfill that plan.
July 4th, 2008
