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My kids are SOOOOO COOL

October 16th, 2008

My son came to me a couple of weeks ago after being at the park w/his boys (it’s funny because my son is such a little moma’s boy and square, it’s weird to hear him say “my boys”) (I ain’t that naive, I know the boy probably curses like a sailor when he’s not around me, but around me he is the most respectful and sweet kid). http://www.fabulousblackwoman.com/monthlyarticle.html read this article about him…It is a bit bias since…I wrote it. Anyways, he was so devastated when he came back because one of his classmates came to the park and she was pregnant. He couldn’t beleive it and talked about it all day. He is so mature because instead of ridiculing her like most people would; he was really sympathetic because he understood just how impossible she had just made her life. She was pregnant by one of his friends that was up at the park and she came to kick it with her boyfriend…. (13 years old going to the 8th grade) He talked to the boy about what he had done and the F’d up decision they had made. My kids just really make this life so much easier…

I wonder how many times you can fall in love with a person…Like can you do it every day? I have joint custody of my daughter because I beleive that it’s important for her to spend equal time with both parents, but it’s getting harder and harder the older she gets. There are moments in time that I can’t get back that would be so much better if she were there…There are lessons and experiences missed that are lost forever. Like times when I see something on T.V. that I think she should see or if we are at a family gathering and all of the other girls are there putting on a fashion show or talent show and she misses out…There are just somethings a girl needs to experience with her mother. There’s just moments that a mother really is all a daughter needs because I am the person she will model herself after and look to MOST for her womanhood…I miss her so much that on the days it’s time for me to pick her up I count down the hours before I reach daycare…Each and every time I see her I fall in love with her again; I get the same feeling I got when I saw her for the first time…I love you so much Khyli…Thanks for completing my life. Every moment spent with you is cherished. I am sooo proud to be your mother and no matter how old you are you will always be my lil princess; sometime it scares me how much you are like me; seriously does everything have to be so dramatic??? How about your smart mouth, must you always be so sarcastic??? Of course you do, otherwise you wouldn’t be you. But thtat’s not the only thing of me I see in you….I see your leadership and your intelligence; I see your compassion for others as well as your deep love for your family. Oh, the psychic told me somethings about you and she gave me something for you too…I’ll bring it when I pick you up today…Love you baby.

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