http://fabulousblackwoman.com/blog Fabulous Black Woman Sat, 23 Aug 2008 15:13:47 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 http://fabulousblackwoman.com/blog/2008/05/04/what-is-cheating/comment-page-1/#comment-29 Administrator Sat, 23 Aug 2008 15:13:47 +0000 http://fabulousblackwoman.com/blog/2008/05/04/what-is-cheating/#comment-29 Thanks so much for your input. You sound a lot like myself! Thanks so much for your input. You sound a lot like myself!

]]> http://fabulousblackwoman.com/blog/2008/07/09/dont-you-wish-this-was-possible-sometimes/comment-page-1/#comment-8 Hycletafteest Sun, 03 Aug 2008 13:52:33 +0000 http://fabulousblackwoman.com/blog/2008/07/09/dont-you-wish-this-was-possible-sometimes/#comment-8 I agreed with you I agreed with you

]]> http://fabulousblackwoman.com/blog/2008/05/04/what-is-cheating/comment-page-1/#comment-3 Angel Sun, 04 May 2008 05:23:05 +0000 http://fabulousblackwoman.com/blog/2008/05/04/what-is-cheating/#comment-3 No cheating does not have to be sexual. Yes some people cheat alone with their thoughts not matter how impure. It is CHEATING. Something in the relationship is going wrong it could be unfulfullment or just plain old lust. If someone cheats on you NO it does not mean they never wanted you. They just lost themselves for a moment. Now it is truely up to the individuals involved to determine if the relationship is worth saving. I often tell people this and it comes from an old relationship. A man once told me I drove him to cheating. I said look no one can take you away from me nor can a person take me away from you we don't own each other. His remark was what? Then I further explain if you leave me or vice-versa then in my eyesight we just got tired of one another, ourgrew the other, or just never was completely compatiable. And if a person stays after this indiscretion then it is purely their choice. I believe a relationship can survive a indiscretion, but it takes work on both parties involved. But the key is trust. Personally I will not be able to deal with a cheater because once a cheater always I know I have been there. And it can make you compare yourself to that person. No cheating does not have to be sexual. Yes some people cheat alone with their thoughts not matter how impure. It is CHEATING. Something in the relationship is going wrong it could be unfulfullment or just plain old lust. If someone cheats on you NO it does not mean they never wanted you. They just lost themselves for a moment. Now it is truely up to the individuals involved to determine if the relationship is worth saving. I often tell people this and it comes from an old relationship. A man once told me I drove him to cheating. I said look no one can take you away from me nor can a person take me away from you we don’t own each other. His remark was what? Then I further explain if you leave me or vice-versa then in my eyesight we just got tired of one another, ourgrew the other, or just never was completely compatiable. And if a person stays after this indiscretion then it is purely their choice.
I believe a relationship can survive a indiscretion, but it takes work on both parties involved. But the key is trust. Personally I will not be able to deal with a cheater because once a cheater always I know I have been there. And it can make you compare yourself to that person.

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